Author
Steve McGrath
8 posts
A reading
Inventory
Eight magazine articles between 2003 and 2005 — six in 2003, two in 2005. No companion blog posts located.
Voice and themes
McGrath writes in a casual, conversational first-person voice grounded in direct experience and observation. Prose leans toward anecdote, philosophical digression, and conversational self-correction — readers encounter him thinking aloud. The tone is earnest without being sanctimonious, with flashes of wry humor and self-awareness. Topics scatter across personal ethics, travel, technology, politics, and war, unified by a skeptical humanism: he questions conventional wisdom and asks uncomfortable questions about systems that devalue people.
Evolution
The 2003 cluster reads as lighter — observations on dating ("Ugly Sticks"), cultural identity ("Tourist vs. Traveler," "Iran Shirt Shopping"), and social commentary. In 2005, the writing darkens. Both pieces draw directly on fieldwork in Iraq and Iran. Where early pieces explore ideas, later work documents crisis: the long aftermath of war, the psychological weight of combat, the impossibility of fun once you've witnessed trauma. The shift feels not like a change in character but in circumstance.
Standout pieces
- Why I can't play video games anymore — His longest and most consequential piece. Built on conversations with battle-hardened bodyguards in Iraq, it unpacks how intimate knowledge of war's reality makes playing combat games feel obscene. Culminates in a sharp critique: video games teach children to fetishize weaponry while adults manufacture enemies for profit.
- The Cost of War — A patient, layered exploration of post-conflict devastation. Walks readers through Abadan, Iran, two decades after the Iran–Iraq War, examining rubble, contaminated farmland, psychological displacement. Excels at making infrastructure damage feel as urgent as body counts.
- Small Peters — Deceptively funny: a conversation with a three-year-old about a headline bombing photo spirals into a Socratic dialogue on inequality, greed, and power. The child's honesty exposes the absurdity of adult rationalizations.
- Tourist vs. Traveler — Defends the slur. Rather than distinguish travelers from tourists as moral superiority, he argues the difference is illusion: both bring themselves wherever they go. Self-correction is the essay's strength.
- Iran Shirt Shopping — A slim anecdote about haggling for a shirt in Hamadan that metastasizes into meditation on hospitality, generosity, and cultural difference. The shopkeeper refuses payment, then negotiates the price down to 10 rials — to maintain his honor.
Throughlines & fun details
The most engaging thing about McGrath is his willingness to contradict himself in print. He lectures on video games and then second-guesses himself as "pretty weak." He defends his travel ethics while conceding their limits. The self-doubt reads as honesty, the kind that earns trust. What remains constant is his refusal to hide behind abstraction — he grounds arguments in flesh, place, feeling. War, politics, desire, skepticism: all filtered through what he's seen and touched.
Every post
2005

ARTICLE
Why I can't play video games anymore.
by Steve McGrath
He knows all the calibres the stats magazine sizes, types of scopes manufacturers, accuracy, damage and so on. He is 8 and he is in grade 3. What do you know in grade 3? Geography? History? Math?

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The Cost of War
by Steve McGrath
Almost all of these revelations occurred to me over a couple weeks driving around Abadan Iran, an area that was the center of the Iran Iraq war 18 years ago. Over a million people died in that war.
2003

ARTICLE
Small Peters
by Steve McGrath
Tomas is an amazing kid with a sharp mind and the curious nature of a kid. One of his favorite things to do is to ride up to a newspaper box, point and ask "hey what is in the news?"..

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Iran shirt shopping
by Steve McGrath
Iranians are so happy to meet travelers. You quickly attain celebrity status. It is great, yet it is overwhelming. Everyone is so nice all of the time it is impossible to get any freedom to do anything. It sounds strange and it is..

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Governments and Gay Marriage
by Steve McGrath
..there is thought that gay marriages destroy the sanctity of marriage. Doesn't divorce destroy the sanctity of marriage. Perhaps that should be illegal too...

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Love Your Computer Geek
by Steve McGrath
I look at the knowledge and education some programmers have and I am in awe at how poorly they get paid, the long hours they are expected to work..

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Ugly sticks
by Steve McGrath
I am already thinking about some way to engage in conversation with her. Just one more test. The Seinfeld 30 sec rule. If she looks at you 3 times in 30 secs she is interested...

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Tourist vs. Traveler
by Steve McGrath
Well intentioned and inspired as I might consider myself. I am still a tourist. I take photos of everywhere I go. I visit the beautiful places. I see some of the other places, I meet locals but I can not become a one..
